https://www.lrb.co.uk/the-paper/v46/n01/patricia-lockwood/the-secret-life Created Fri, 15/12/2023 - 00:00 Updated Fri, 15/12/2023 - 00:00 You do walk through the world with some people. You don’t know anything about them, but you walk through the world; if they die, you do not get used to it.