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He’s your current employer, and you live in his house.
Not a red flag. Not for you at least. As the person in the higher class, he is the one with the most to lose. For you, there is nowhere to go but up.
He lies to you about who he is when you first meet.
Not a red flag. This is called keeping the mystery alive, and he is smart to make a habit of it early on.
He accuses you of putting a spell on his horse.
Not a red flag. Insisting that the person you like has used dark magic is actually a very common method of flirting. All the kids/ grown men are doing it. Other versions of this technique include accusing the person you like of being a little fairy, accusing the person you like of being a little elf, and repeatedly referring to the person you like as “an unearthly thing.”
Why did leading designers in 2000 look down their nose at the web? And are things any better today?
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In this column, Kristen Mulrooney writes letters to famous mothers from literature, TV, and film whom she finds herself relating to on a different level now that she’s a mom herself.
Dear Alison,
I am forever thinking about the time Katherine Heigl made some negative comments about your character, saying that you were painted as a shrew and a killjoy, and that you and your sister seemed “humorless and uptight” while the men in your lives got to be “lovable, goofy, fun-loving guys.”
After letting my indignance about those comments stew for over a decade, I am writing to you today to adamantly defend your honor, because I think you were painted with all the right shades of patience and resistance, all of your lines drawing boundaries exactly where they needed to be. The problem wasn’t the painting—the problem was the way we’re primed to view women, and honestly, I hate it.