Republican vice presidential candidate J. D. Vance’s claims that childless women are “miserable” is insulting not only to women without children but to mothers as well. As a feminist, I am offended by this narrow and paternalistic definition of misery, and I strongly believe that every woman can be miserable, whether or not she has children.
Sure, a woman could be miserable being childless. For example, maybe she wants to have children but experiences infertility or, for other reasons, needs to access reproductive technology but can’t afford to because Republicans, including Vance, voted down the Right to IVF Bill. Or maybe she’s childfree by choice but regrets it when she runs into a friend at the grocery store and can’t say that the back issues of Teen Vogue, Silly Strawberry–flavored toothpaste, and seven boxes of Froot Loops in her cart are for the kids.


